Educating children in modern times is a challenge that goes beyond the norm. Oftentimes, we believe that our experiences are enough to guide us through this process. In reality, they are nothing more than facts of life. This is not to say that we have to completely ignore them. Instead, the best we can do is analyse them from a spiritual approach. By pondering on the whys and wherefores of them, we allow discernment. In order to do this a journey within along with a deep understanding of the subconscious mind makes necessary. Only by comprehending our strong and weak points and linking the consequences with the possible causes of several circumstances in our lives at a subconscious level will we be able to become a lighthouse for children.
New human beings come into this world to follow their purposes. Little do they know that this fancy world is toxic and full of traps.
Also, each one of them has their own concepts and level of consciousness. For this reason, experiences differ from individual to individual. And the same way, their conclusions about life will vary according to how they personally deal with it.
For better or worse, life will reveal itself to them every passing day. As time goes by, things follow their natural course. Then, we get puzzled by how an unfolding of a situation develops. This is life, proving that it acts like a mirror. Children’s behavior reflects exactly hidden aspects of us which are nothing more than repressed feelings and emotions that sooner or later begin to surface in their attitudes. Indeed, this is the manifestation of wrong programs and paradigms.
Naturally, children absorb our distorted belief systems controlled by feelings of fear, limitation, competition, prejudice, scarcity and insecurity. All this negativity is a curse rather than a blessing. So, the acceptance of this imbalance as part of life indicates lack of wisdom. And it is so deeply ingrained within us that it passes unnoticed amongst many generations. This, in turn, causes us to unconsciously teach them to be losers. As we lead by example, we create a destructive connection which only brings uncertainty.
Educating Children Requires Spiritual Wisdom
Words and behavior represent the basic structure for children’s learning. They constantly observe you, becoming inspired by every little action you take. Playing just the role of a parent figure with an authoritative voice shows respect, but it is not everything. Similarly, imposing rules on them if you constantly externalize your weakenesses is to no avail. Children will inevitably adopt shortcomings as a model of behavior.
It is not because they want it, but rather because our attitudes have a boomerang effect on them. Once they are exposed to certain paradigms and belief systems, there is no way out of this.
Given that the conscious mind does not filter information, it acts like a sponge. Then, what happens is the stream of misleading information going straight into their subconscious minds. After reaching them, all the absorbed data creates patterns which influence their thoughts and behavior. Making a comparison, patterns are like television channels. Depending upon their operation, they perform in a different way. But the biggest problem they cause is the self-limiting beliefs which restrain any individual from advance and freedom.
For having no knowledge of how the mind works, parents bring up their children, taking into account only external events. This kind of conduct is erroneous due to the fact that it perpetuates the cycle of pain, suffering and despair. On the other hand, children from parents with higher levels of consciousness tend to be self-aware. In a positive way, they become more in tune with their internal condition, presenting an optimistic frame of mind. Absolutely, they are much more strong-willed, confident and likely to follow their heart.
Parents Must Confront The Matrix In Order To Succeed In Educating Their Children
Since the day we are born we become susceptible to the temptations of the matrix. It seems so real that our five senses cannot resist to it. In such a strong influence, we are led to believe in all attractions and distractions. The remaining alternative, then, is moderate behavior. As we know, trying to escape from it creates resistance. Having only this option, we can merge with it, not losing control of our awakened minds.
This 3D world gives us a false idea of material existence, leading us to a misinterpretation of reality. There is a profound meaning behind everything which appears real.
Like it or lump it, energy circulates everything we say, feel, eat, see, hear, smell and touch. The energy transaction is complex and happens collectively. Even with good values, children have access to many things which the matrix offers. TV news and programs which influence man’s behavior, subliminal messages on songs and advertisements, foods which lower the human being’s vibrational frequency and words carelessly uttered are just some small examples. The same way, children make new friends, each one carrying their own energy and perception of reality. Being aware of that, parents cannot simply move children away from the matrix. On the contrary, they ought to make them understand the symbiotic relationship between man and the world. Hence, they must in a friendly way exhibit the true intentions of the matrix.
Educating children in the matrix requires patience. As it turns out, the matrix is like hell on earth. By sparking their curiosity, parents help them question the world around. Since information is available everywhere, after reaching a mature age, they will have the choice to research it.
Children are empty vessels, being ready to absorb information.
With this in mind, parents must instill useful principles into them. Just by talking about the Law of Attraction, meditation and Transurfing techniques will give them an insight into proper way of thinking and behavior. Good values such as these along with games make a difference in a child’s life. Moreover, talking to them about their issues in each phase of their lives without reprimanding gives them clarity. Not only that, but children and teenagers love to be heard and express themselves. So, by listening to them parents give them the opportunity to be independent thinkers. As a result, they feel secure and free to make their own decisions in life.